Scott Peddie

Narcissism often puzzles those who encounter it, especially when it comes to how narcissistic individuals handle responsibility. One of the most confusing, destabilising and frustrating behaviours is the reversal of blame. Instead of owning up to mistakes or faults, narcissists frequently shift the blame onto others, leaving those around them feeling bewildered and unfairly targeted. This blog post explores the psychology behind this behaviour, why it happens, and how to recognize and respond...

Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation that can leave deep scars on a person's sense of reality, self-worth and confidence. It often happens gradually, making it hard to recognise until much of the damage is done. But it can also occur over a relatively short period of time - weeks and months - depending on the context. Understanding what gaslighting involves and how it affects emotions is essential for anyone who wants to protect themselves or support others facing this challenge....

Knowing whether to reach out to someone can feel like walking a tightrope. You may very much want to connect in whatever way, and for whatever reason, but you also worry about crossing boundaries or imposing. Our personality styles impact significantly on how we evaluate such circumstances. One of the prime issues is that of vulnerability: some are comfortable in that space, yet others find it threatening and frightening. To be vulnerable, and to reach out, demands that we are willing to...